🌿The mistreatment of moms has to stop.

(3 min read) Moms unjustly absorb a lot of responsibilities and this negatively affects all our children. The physical + mental load that falls on our own two shoulders is unjustifiable- physically creating a child, nourishing their growth for many years, maintaining a healthy life environment, growing our own minds, having professional identities, working to support our families, the additional tasks assigned by culture/society... it is not acceptable that the expectation is that we do it all alone without significant mental consequences on us and our children.

The ultimate solution is systemic change and societal acceptance of the sacredness of motherhood which can only occur with great intention over time. Until we see this systemic change, what is the solution in the current moments we face as overworked, overstimulated, overtaxed mothers? How do we protect our mental health as the main individuals caring for the future generation? 

Intention + Organization

These two concepts will guide us, my high achieving comrades into a state of confidence and peace in the midst of the unjust expectations and responsibilities put upon us. We must strive towards what I call Mirvana- the ultimate state of balance as a mom and highly capable individual as to protect our mental health and ultimately that of our children. 

My purpose on this Earth is to help moms reach their Mirvana so that they can best care for their children, the future world community my own children will be a part of. How I'm doing this- I founded the High Achieving Moms Club, which all moms are a part of unless actively choosing not to be. I create free resources, trainings, and events so moms can focus on their priorities with intention and organization. You can read more about me and mission here and you can check out my online library filled with free resources here. Lastly, if growing your mind is a priority for you I invite you to join my free community where I teach concepts from my monthly syllabus based on the elements of health. This month we're talking about relationships!

I am grateful to be on this motherhood journey alongside such astounding moms. We are literally creating the future and we can't do that alone and we can't do it well if our mental state is consistently out of equilibrium. If this resonates, I'm so glad. I'll be sending a weekly e-newsletter so make sure to get me out of your promotions/spam folder and connect with me on social media @highachievingmomsclub. If not, please feel free to unsubscribe at the bottom of this email.

Honor your importance and safeguard your mind. All our kids depend on it.

XO, Naomi Bocaniciu

mom, founder, certified life + business coach